How to build your life to remain a real man? (10-15 sentences)

How to build your life to remain a real man? Such questions always make me to reflect . Different people consider the word " a real man" in different ways . As for me , to build my life and to remain a real man means to have my own opinion on each situation but not to offend anyone . It is not an easy task not to cross this line and not to look in the eyes of others as upstart . I don't like to hurt somebody even when they tell me something unpleasant . I don't reply in response .I do so not because I am afraid of them or I am flabby but to offend somebody by telling unpleasant words will hurt me more . I don't like to feel negative emotions even more so to make somebody upset or cry . I know it is difficult but your negative reaction and negative emotions will hurt you too. Build your life and remain a real man ! Who never gossips behind people's back , who never envies , who never wants to hurt somebody's feelings. Try to be such kind of man and the name of a real man will be given to you by people .