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How Does Your Child Act? Essay, Research Paper

How Does Your Child Act?

First of all I think that in the back of every parents mind are questions concerning

their child?s future. Like will it be a doctor, a lawyer, or the next president of the United

States. But with these questions there are also more questions that are not discussed

freely like what if it is a bad child or it is uncontrollable? And will it do drugs or try

alcohol and smoke cigarettes? Another question that might be in the back of a parents

mind is about its child?s sexual orientation. I know this may seem far fetched to some

people but if I had a child right now in todays world, that question would not be in the

back of my mind but in the front. I know that any parent and including me will love their

child no matter what it?s sexual orientation, but I know that most if not all parents would

prefer that their kids be straight. This is not so they won?t be embarrass or ashamed by

their child, but only for the protection of their child. As we all know this world is not a

safe place for people that are different. I think that parents are concerned when their girl

acts like a tomboy, but they get really scared when their son starts doing what we

traditionally consider girl stuff. A child should be raised to be whomever he or she

chooses and the child shouldn?t have to accept society, but society should accept the child

for who they are.

A parents reaction to their daughter acting like a tomboy is very passive and they

play it off humorously and sometimes they even encourage it. This doesn?t apply to some

parents but most parents react this way when their daughter acts like a boy and does boy

stuff. I used to know a girl that was a tomboy. She always hung around with boys even

in middle school. She had al guy friends and would play boys games. Not once did I ever

hear her parents say anything to make her stop acting like a tomboy, instead they

encouraged. For instance they used to take all her friends, we were all boys to baseball

games and hockey games. There was never another girl there except for herself. And I

guess she felt comfortable hanging around with boys and her parents didn?t mind as long

as she was happy, because that was really what mattered. On the other hand there was my

neighbors son. This boy was the total opposite of the girl. He never played with boys but

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