Реферат: How Does Your Child Act Essay Research

are different and about things that they are not educated on or don?t know enough about.

Take me for instance I am all right about talking to a lesbian, I have no problem with that.

But you can never make me talk to a gay guy. That is one thing I would never be able to

do. To honest with you it grosses me out and I don?t even know why. This doesn?t mean

I hate gay guys, it just means that if I knew that some guy was gay I just wouldn?t ever

talk to him. This is true for all my friends because we have discussed it before. And we

are not anti gay or anything it just that we are scared of things we don?t understand and

really don?t want to understand. There again is the double standard because in my mind

it?s okay for some girl to be a lesbian but it?s not okay for a guy to be gay. I remember in

high school when there was a rumor going around that a teacher was gay, he was a male

teacher. It just so happened that this was currently my teacher. After hearing that rumor,

if it was a rumor or the truth, I was never able to talk to that teacher again.

Furthermore I believe that the little boys doing girl stuff and the little girls doing

boy stuff will eventually grow out of doing so. It?s just a phase. Maybe at that point in

the child?s life they are not interested with what their sex does and doesn?t care for it. I

came to this conclusion because I have seen it happen. Remember the boy and girl I

discussed earlier? Well they turned out all right, because I still know both of them and

they are pretty close friends of mine. The girl just grew out of the jeans and a shirts. As

soon as she got to high school she stopped hanging around with us boys, and nobody

minded it. But she was still very athletic and was on the softball and basketball teams in

high school. And the boy also just grew out of his phase. He was even on my football

team in high school, he was pretty athletic in all sports. Last I heard from him was that he

was going to be a doctor. In the end something good did come out of him doing ?girl

stuff?. So in the end I think it?s up to the child when she or he wants to move out of the

phase they are going through. And I don?t believe that parents should push their child to

act like their own sex. I know that?s more easier to say than do, and plus I am not a

parent yet. If the child doesn?t change because they don?t want to, well than we as a

society should try to help that child feel accepted and not rejected. Because they most

likely already feel rejected cause they are different.